With you, I be myself
We all pretend to be somebody we all not one time or another.
Some reasons why
1) We want to impress someone and think that the person will not like us for who we are, so we try to be somebody so that the person we like may possibly be more attracted to us.
2) We do not want our friends or people around us to know us for who we really are.
3) We want to imitate someone. For example, we may possibly want to be like Cristiano ronaldo/wayne rooney and therefore develop a kind of arrogance/confident that is attached to these two people.
4) We are sick of being ourselves.
many more.
The points that I have pointed out might seem really common, maybe you even tell yourself "hey i seen this or i read this shit before". But look carefully. I assure everyone that you can relate to at least two of the above 4. In other words, you experience at least 2 before.
1) and 2) are pretty common. It is generated usually because we feel we are not as good as wat we think people expect us to be. And dun go fooling yourself that u never been like that once before. Everyone reading this have certainly tried to be someone they are not just so their friends/crush will think better of them.
One word of advice. If you have a bf or gf and you still feel the need to impress them.....well, ermm...good luck, you probably need it.
3) is simple, basically we see someone on Tv. Perhaps David Beckham, Morten Gamst Pedersen, Britney Spears, Jamie Spears and we think hmmm it be great to be like them. And so we do. The consequences? not much actually. Just that you look like a loser when people find out.
If u suffer from 4). Whoa! I shall write about it another time, but its not the end of the world dun worry. You can either seek professional help or wait till i have time to do my 'research' .
Some reasons why
1) We want to impress someone and think that the person will not like us for who we are, so we try to be somebody so that the person we like may possibly be more attracted to us.
2) We do not want our friends or people around us to know us for who we really are.
3) We want to imitate someone. For example, we may possibly want to be like Cristiano ronaldo/wayne rooney and therefore develop a kind of arrogance/confident that is attached to these two people.
4) We are sick of being ourselves.
many more.
The points that I have pointed out might seem really common, maybe you even tell yourself "hey i seen this or i read this shit before". But look carefully. I assure everyone that you can relate to at least two of the above 4. In other words, you experience at least 2 before.
1) and 2) are pretty common. It is generated usually because we feel we are not as good as wat we think people expect us to be. And dun go fooling yourself that u never been like that once before. Everyone reading this have certainly tried to be someone they are not just so their friends/crush will think better of them.
One word of advice. If you have a bf or gf and you still feel the need to impress them.....well, ermm...good luck, you probably need it.
3) is simple, basically we see someone on Tv. Perhaps David Beckham, Morten Gamst Pedersen, Britney Spears, Jamie Spears and we think hmmm it be great to be like them. And so we do. The consequences? not much actually. Just that you look like a loser when people find out.
If u suffer from 4). Whoa! I shall write about it another time, but its not the end of the world dun worry. You can either seek professional help or wait till i have time to do my 'research' .
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